Hays C. Mayo

Father, Husband, Brother, Friend
That is how my father will be remembered.
He passed away this morning after a 2 1/2 year
battle with pancreatic cancer.

Blue Light Bed

Lilianna had her first visit with the pediatrician today. She has lost weight since birth and is now 5lbs, 12oz. There is some concern She is also jaundice, her bilirubin is 15. It is normal to see a bilirubin of 5 or 6 and it usually resolves itself. In Lili's case it is high enough to warrant a light bed. Luckily we can use it at home. We go back into the pediatrician's office on Monday. Fingers crossed this works!

Lilianna Marie

Lilianna Marie Smith was born today (12/06/2010) at 3:08pm, weighing in at 6lbs 10 oz and measuring 20 1/2 inches long. She was born at North Kansas City Hospital with Dr. Rickey Nagy in attendance. She has a headful of blonde hair and grey-ish eyes, we will have to wait and see what color they become. Nana and Aunt Lisa were there for the arrival. When big brother Nic came up to see her and she recognized his voice right away. When he spoke she got very quiet and still, looking at him. He didn't seem to mind that they share a birthday.

The comments left in Chad's guest book...

RUTH (SETCHFIELD) CLOW

Sylvia, I knew you in high school a long time ago. My heart breaks to hear of your profound loss. May God bless and comfort all of you.

08/30/2010

SHANDI SOTO

Chad, You are such an amazing man. You have touched my life and my sisters life so much. Even after all the years pass our hearts our always together an a little piece of mine paced when you had to leave us. God Bless you and your family.

08/21/2010

CHRISTINA BASHAM ROBERTS

To the Pennington family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. I went to high school with Chad and remember him as being a very sweet guy and funny. Unfortunately I didn't get the chance to talk to him at the class reunion. He will be deeply missed and he is a hero in heaven.

08/20/2010

JOHN GEGG

We have all lost someone close to us and we all deal with the pain differently.

Some fall and can not get up, for those we must pick them up.

Some fall and ask for help to get up,for those we must be there without hesitation.

Some stand strong and pray they don't fall,for them we must let them know that that if they fall we will be there to help pick them up.

Others fall then pick themselves up and dust themselves off only to fall again yet they continue to dust themselves off, for those we must let them know we are there to help

Then there are those who look to others for strength, for them we must show that it is okay to fall but we must get back up and continue for that is the best way I know to honor those who have gone before us.

Last but no less important those who hide that they have fallen, for those we must show them there is no shame in falling nor does it make them less in the eyes of others for we all fall at one time or another and friends and family will always be there even when you don't want them there.

And I believe that Chad was someone who always had his hand out to help those who needed it and as long as we are there to do the same for each other and those around us I believe he would be proud to call us family and friends.

yours truly with everlasting thoughts,

John Gegg

08-13-2010

08/20/2010

BECKIE KELLY

Lisa and Family, thinking and praying for you and your family, Beckie

08/20/2010

ERIN (NKCH)

Lisa and family,
I was heartbroken to hear of your loss. Please know that I am thinking about you and praying for you during this difficult time.

08/20/2010

JESSICA HULL

Lisa and Family~

I am so sad for your loss, my heart goes out to you and your family. You will be in my prayers and I just pray God gives you great strength and peace during this time. Keep your head held high. I will be Praying.

08/19/2010

MELODY CAYTON NURSE AT TOPPING

I always appreciated seeing Chad at Topping. I remember him being such a great male role model for all the children. May you sense Gods love during this time.

08/19/2010

JOAN MINOR

For those of us that believe there is life after death, this is not good-by. It's see ya later.

08/19/2010

DUSTIN DRAPER

you are my best friend, my kids godfather, the best Father, husband, brother, son and grand son that ever where. No one can or will take that away from you.

It will be hard for all of us but your strength and corage will be ours to use. Love you

08/19/2010

FRANK AND MARGARET MAYO

Lisa and family,
We are shocked and saddened to hear about Chad. Please know that you all are in our prayers.

08/19/2010

HAYS MAYO

Chad you will be missed by all, but I especialy will miss your protecting hand watching over my daughter and my grandchildren.

08/19/2010

BRENDA JOHNSON

Dear Lisa, I could'nt believe what I was reading when I saw the article in my local paper. Oh I do know what you are going through and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hang on to those precious memories, and take one day at a time. May God Bless .

08/19/2010

JUDY WILSON

Lisa and Family,
Words cannot express how sad I am for your loss. Chad was a great Dad and husband, I could see that in your photos and by the way you talked about him. God Bless you all and give you the strength to get through this.

08/18/2010

NORA BEAN

Lisa,
you and your family are in our prayers at this time of loss.

08/18/2010

KATHY SWEET

08/18/2010

ANGIE CRAIG

My thoughts and prayers are with you and family.

08/18/2010

A sympathy card has been sent to the family of Chad Patrick Pennington c/o Roberson Funeral Home.

08/18/2010

TINA WESTWOOD HEAD

I've known Chad since I was 13 years old. We have had lots of laughs together. I know Chad to be a caring and sensitive man, whose family was the most important thing to him. I am very grateful that Chad and I had recently reunited after a very long time of not seeing each other. He will always be considered a very special person in my life and my heart, and I will deeply miss him.

08/18/2010

MICHAEL THOMPSON

Condolences and Prayers are with You, Sylvia. May He Rest In Peace!

08/18/2010

PAULA TAYLOR

Thinking of you. Praying for you and your family.

08/18/2010

MISHIA O'DELL

As the Lord brings Chad home, our heart and prayers go to Lisa and family. May the Lord carry you through this difficult time and ease your hearts.

08/18/2010

MARILYN MORALES (WEST)

Sylvia,
I was so sorry to hear of your son's death. I CANNOT even imagine the grief you are feeling at this time. Take care, friend, your THS classmates of '66 are keeping you in their prayers.
Marilyn Morales West

08/18/2010

JIM AND AMY MITCHELL

Lisa we miss you and we will miss hi dearly honey just lat us know if you need anything ok 816-210-1738 We

08/18/2010

STACEY TATUM NEAL

Lisa - I'm so sorry for your loss. Please reach out if you need anything.

08/18/2010

JOHN DAVID PENNINGTON

Here is an old prayer that my witty history major brother may have appreciated:

Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Everything remains as it was.
The old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no sorrow in your tone.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort
Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting, when we meet again.


Rest well Chad, we'll see you again in a better place than here brother.
John

08/18/2010

REAGAN MARTIN

I am thinking of you

08/18/2010

AMBER BETTIS

Please stay strong. You are in my prayers.

08/18/2010

ERIN KIEFER FRENCH

Lisa and family, I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers... I believe that god may be building his army, he has taken alot of good people in the last few years, and I know that god has a plan for us, though we may not understand...

08/18/2010

A sympathy card has been sent to the family of Chad Patrick Pennington c/o Roberson Funeral Home.

08/18/2010

CHRIS BECKTOLD

I will miss you more than anyone knows. Thank you for all the memories I will never forget you.

08/17/2010

RAEJEAN MICHAEL

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Pennington family. Chad was a very dear friend to me. Always had a kind word. Could make a joke out of anything. You will be missed my dear friend.....Love you always

08/17/2010

TIMOTHY A TEVIS

You wiil be missed my friend. Lots oc love to you.

08/17/2010

THE GODDARD FAMILY

Our prayers and love go out to the Pennington family. Chad could bring a smile to our faces no matter what. He will be greatly missed.

08/17/2010

SHERRY KASKE

Chad I will miss you and will forever hold the memories of all the laughter you brought into my life and everyone else who knew you.

08/17/2010

DANA MILLER

Chad was a wonderful blessing to the students and staff at Topping. He came in to serve and to learn and to share his talents. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with your family.

08/17/2010

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Chad Patrick Pennington 4/3/1972 - 8/13/2010

Chad Patrick Pennington April 3, 1972 - August 13, 2010 BIOGRAPHY Chad Patrick Pennington, 38, Kansas City, died Friday, August 13, 2010 at North Kansas City Hosp. He was born April 3, 1972 at Forbes Air Force Base, KS, the son of Donald and Sylvia Pennington. On March 16, 1996, he married Lisa Mayo in Kansas City, MO. She survives at the home. Chad was attending college to be a history teacher. He was a member of the 1st Missouri Dismounted Cavalry Civil War Re-enactment Group. Chad was involved in the leadership of the Young Men's Association of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Survivors in addition to his wife are his Children, Kameron, Heather, Cassidy, Luke and Caitlin Pennington, of the home; Parents, Donald Pennington and Sylvia Heinzle, Independence, MO; Sister, Holly Riner, Buckner, MO; Brother, John David Pennington, Kwajalein, Marhall Islands; Grandmother, Esther Friend, Independence, MO. Funeral Services will be 10:00 a.m. Friday, August 20, at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Independence Missouri Stake Center, 705 West Walnut St., Independence, MO. Burial in Mound Grove Cemetery of Independence. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to Lisa Pennington for the Pennington Family Fund in care of Roberson Funeral Home, P.O. Box 46, Bethany, MO 64424. Online condolences may be left at www.robersonfuneralhome.com. FUNERAL SERVICE Friday August 20, 2010, 10:00 a.m. at Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints Independence Missouri Stake Center Click for Map and Directions Friends may call at the church after 8:30 a.m. Friday morning. BURIAL Friday August 20, 2010 at Mound Grove Cemetery Click for Map and Directions

FACTS Born: April 3, 1972 Death: August 13, 2010 Occupation: Student Organizations: Member of the 1st Missouri Dismounted Cavalry Civil War Re-enactment Group and involved with the leadership of Young Men's Association of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. SURVIVED BY Donald Pennington & Sylvia Heinzle,Parents Lisa (Mayo) Pennington, Spouse Kameron, Heather, Cassidy, Luke and Caitlin Pennington, Children Holly Riner, Sister John David Pennington, Brother Esther Friend, Grandmother GUESTBOOK Share your thoughts and memories about Chad Patrick Pennington in the guestbook. Sign the guestbook Read the guestbook MEMORIAL DONATIONS Memorial donations can be made to: Lisa Pennington for the Pennington Family Fund in care of Roberson Funeral Home, P.O. Box 46, Bethany, MO 64424,

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Silver medal

Nic took a Silver medal in his weight class in a Freestyle Judo Tournament. I am super proud of him!!

New little one

I have a new little coming. I saw my new OB today for my first visit. His name is Dr. Rick Nagy. I was warned he has a wicked, slightly weird sense of humor...they were right! But he is great. I really felt comfortable with him. I have been very worried about having another miscarriage and he was able to allay my fears. He did a sonogram and I was able to see the heart beating. We will have to wait a little longer to see if it is a girl or boy. My suspicion is a girl....but we will see!

I am due December 17, 2010

Track Letter

Nic recieved his varsity letter in track. He threw a personal best in discus 113'7". He continues to throw both disc and shotput. What a way to finish out your junior year.

Grandpa-olies

Last night for dinner, Rosie announced that she wanted "Grandpa-olies"It was really cute to hear her say it. While we were caring for her great-grandpa Jim, he went thru a phase during which he would ONLY eat ravioli for lunch and dinner. I guess it stuck with her.

Remember your worth

Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.

They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.

They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.

They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they
think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.

They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you..

They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their
family and friends.

The heart of a woman is what
makes the world keep turning.

Day in the park

We had a great day at the park last week with Liz and Alex while they were in town. Rosie figured out how to pump her feet to push herself in the swing.

Broke a 20 minute mile

Last week I started the Couch to 5K program. I am into week two now.

Today was the perfect kind of day to walk/run for me. I love to be out in the rain. Just a light drizzle, not a down pour. I felt great so I pushed and did a full 5K.....in 50 minutes. WHA-HOOO.....I got my 20 minute mile back. I am psyched. I have been disappointed the last few run because I was only covering 1.15 miles in 30 minutes. I really wanted to get back to a 20 minute mile. Now I will push towards a 15 minute mile. WIsh me luck!!

My "baby" isn't a baby anymore.

Where did the time go??

I can't believe how big my "baby" girl is.

An Irishman's Philosophy

In life, there are only two things to worry about— Either you are well or you are sick. If you are well, there is nothing to worry about, But if you are sick, there are only two things to worry about— Either you will get well or you will die. If you get well, there is nothing to worry about, But if you die, there are only two things to worry about— Either you will go to heaven or hell. If you go to heaven, there is nothing to worry about. And if you go to hell, you’ll be so busy shaking hands with all your friends You won’t have time to worry!

Happy St. Patrick's Day!!!

James H Miller 4/17/1921 to 2/23/2010

My grandfather passed away last night. He was surrounded by his family and went peacefully.

I truely appreciate the hospice nurses and aides that were there. They are all angels in disguise.

Happy Valentine's Day

Love me tender, love me sweet
Never let me go
You have made my life complete
And I love you so
Love me tender, love me true
All my dreams fulfill
For, my darling I love you
And I always will.
Love me tender, love me dear
Tell me you are mine
I'll be yours through all the years
'Till the end of time
Love me tender, love me true
All my dreams fulfill
For, my darling I love you
And I always will
Love me tender, love me true
All my dreams fulfill
For, my darling I love you
And I always will
Always will

New house.

We are officially in the new house. There is still a lot of unpacking to do but the kitchen is mostly unpacked and the living room is put together. Ian started his new school yesterday. He seemed to enjoy it but was really distracted. I am hoping that will settle down once the newness wears off. Rosie is doing well with the new house. She is enjoying the wood floors that allow her to "tap" dance.

Back to unpacking...

Pouting and packing going on in my house

Got word yesterday that the rental house in Kearney should be ready to move into this coming weekend. Yes, it is quick but I sooo need to move. I have hit my max on patience with my grandfather. I need a break away from him. He is a stubborn, manipulative, pain in the a**. (at least we know I come by it honestly) If he were a resident at a facility where I worked, it wouldn't be so bad because I would get time away and two days off every week. Living with him I get no true break away from him. Yesterday was the icing on the cake for me. I had just finished scolding Ian for hiding the remote from grandpa. I took the remote away, changed the channel to CNN and gave the remote to grandpa. I walk out of the room and get 1/2 across the dining room only to hear Ian start screeching again. I figure grandpa has made a face at him or something similar and Ian was mad so he was screeching and walk back in ready to remove Ian from the room. INSTEAD, I find my grandfather smacking Ian. Open handed hitting him, where ever he could reach. Now I grant you my grandfather doesn't have much strength behind his hits but, HE WAS HITTING MY CHILD. I freaked! I completely lost my temper with him, yelling and pointing my finger. How dare he raise a hand to my child, my own mother doesn't even spank my children except in extreme circumstances. Oh, I was pissed. So now Ian has been banished from the front room and dining room. It is the only way I can keep him and grandpa apart. This is where the "very thankful I am moving next weekend" comes in. After all this happens, I apologized to grandpa for losing my temper and tried to talk to him about why I was so upset. He responses by telling me this just isnt working anymore and he is going to sell the house and move to a nursing home so he can just die. (Manipulative SOB) I reminded him the house was his and I reminded him I am moving to Kearney. He informs me he is moving back home to Bethany by himself until he dies. I again reminded him the house in Smithville is his, bought and paid for, and that he can not live on his own so Meg is moving up to the house to take care of him. Again he tells me that wont work, Meg has to many thing to do she cant take care of him, she has kids and a husband, blah, blah, blah. I bit my tongue. After another 10 minutes of this crap from him, I was quickly losing my temper again. I finally just got in his face and told him...Grandpa you do not get to do this to me. I am just as stubborn and pigheaded as you are. The house is paid for, you are staying here, I am moving out, Meg is moving in, AND YOU WILL BE NICE TO HER. This is the end of this discussion. Then I got up and walked out. He is still pouting this morning and I am packing.

Gut feelings

Sometimes it is a good idea to go with your gut feeling. My gut has been saying NO about the agency case since they told me it was in Odessa. So, over the weekend I put out several resumes, still unsure about the agency job. One of them was in reply to a craiglist ad for a Night Charge Nurse in Independence for a small (50 bed) nursing home. They called me this am and asked me to come in for an interview at 2p. I got hired on the spot after a 20 minute interview with the Director of Nursing.

Agency Job - 1.5 hr commute each way, $20/hr, 69 hr/payperiod

VS.

Nursing Home Job - 0.5 hr commute each way, $19/hr, 80hr/payperiod

Not a hard choice. I took the Nursing Home job. I have orientation tomorrow.

Moving on...

Well, the decision has been made. I am moving on. I have accepted a job with Maxim Health Care, a nursing agency, and will be moving as soon as I find a place. The past year and 1/2 has taken it's toll and I am ready to get back to my own life. Don't get me wrong, I would never had said no to taking care of my grandparents but I am glad things are working out that I can gracefully step out and let someone else put in their time. Since my grandmother passed there really isn't a need for a nurse full-time, Grandpa just need someone to make sure he is safe, cook for him and entertain him. Lisa or I can pop in once a week or so and do the "nurse things", like double check meds/INR checks and Meagan and her family are moving up here to the Smithville house to be "in charge".

I am happy that I can now get back to being a mom first and a nurse second. It is a big scary change though and I would be lying if I said I wasn't having my moments of anxiety about this. I am really and truly starting over.....again. New job, new place to live, just me and the kids. Wow!